TC 9.50b1 (and 9.22a) x32 and x64
It's old known problem. Earlier TC on earlier Win versions (at least Win 7) have the same behavior.
Copy ico or exe file from one panel to another or just rename with another file name.
And new file still have old icon.

Image: https://funkyimg.com/i/2XEHQ.gif
Clean Windows and clean TC with default settings:
Image: https://i.imgur.com/GgqvfZz.gif
cm_RereadSource - nothing.
cm_ReloadBarIcons or cm_ReloadSelThumbs (I know it's another function, but tried) - nothing.
Reload explorer.exe and refresh icon cache in explorer - nothing.
Different view mode (full, brief, thumbs) or icons size in panels - nothing.
Explorer shows correct icon for file.
In TC panel correct icon appears only after TC restart